Is it a bad thing when your boyfriend watches porn all the time? It really bugs me that he does it. Its bad like hes obsessed. Idk what to do he says hell stop but keeps doing it? & its not like we dont have sex. We have sex alot. Please help? :( idk what to do
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I don't see a problem with porn, as long as he doesn't know anyone who is in the film.
How much is "A Lot"?
It's not uncommon for guys to masturbate once a day or even more, especially in their younger years, and to do that most look at porn... So watching porn twice a day isn't "Unhealthy" if that's their masturbatory schedule.
Men and women are biologically almost two different species.
Men are VISUAL creatures and when they yank it, they're thinking about body parts and not whole people... The boobs of the chick that they saw this morning on the way to school... The legs of the chick at Taco Bell... The butt of the chick he saw in a commercial on YouTube...
It has NOTHING to do with "Emotions" or "Relationships" or "Love", it's about the sheer biological need to flush the pipes.
That being said, sexual addiction/sexual compulsivity/porn addiction are very real conditions... But they're rather narrowly defined.
Addiction (regardless of what they're addicted to) is the inability to stop doing something/stop thinking of something in the face of mounting consequences.
That's it...
A person that drinks once a month is an alcoholic if every time they drink they get out of hand and get arrested or otherwise in trouble and can't stop themselves from drinking that one time a month...
Sexual Addiction/Compulsive is when he neglects his school work, work-work, relationships, etc. because he MUST go watch porn.
Not how YOU feel about his watching porn, but his actual life/consequences. His he neglecting your relationship or is this just because you're female and can't understand his biological needs are vastly different than yours?
I'm a chick and I watch porn a few times a week, which is high for most women but I'm a more progesterone drive girl so I have a sex drive more like that of a guy than the estrogen driven women out there.
Okay, if he IS addicted to porn, having more sex won't do anything. Try and find some sort of sex anonymous place or pornography anonymous and see if there's a questionnaire that you can take to see if he is.
Just tell him to slow it down and it kinda bugs u, if it doesn't stop then tell him he is making the relationship awkward
Make your own porn.
Suck him off or hand job while he is watchin it