confused?!? girl problem?
Hello Everyone,
I am 23 and I have never been to good at reading women. I am a pretty shy person as well so this probably adds to my inability to read women.
But anyways I have been talking to a girl for about 2 months and we have hung out as well as gone to the movies and ect. But the thing is that I am away the first to text her and make plans. so im not sure if she is just hanging out with me as a friend or if she really likes me and would be interested in dating me.
any help would be nice, thanks
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I would recommend acting soon before you get 'friend zoned', be brave, I know that it is really really hard to make the first move, but try it, as you say goodbye to her next time you meet up plant a peck kiss on the lips but make sure its on the lips and not a snog, leave it at that on the first time unless she obviously is keen for more or not and then wait till the next time before you do anything more. Good luck, but remember to be brave!
well, as a girl, i'd have to say if she *never* texts you to make plans, there's a possibility she only thinks the two of you are friends. however, you can always send her a nice text to ask her how she feels or maybe when you ask her to hang next throw the word date in there! she'll let you know if you two are just friends. this is the best advice i can give you. good luck!
Next time you go out, do all the little things right: open her door, pull her chair, and buy her the most expensive set of flowers you can find (with some chocolates if you know shes into it). If she asks why your being weird, you know right then... Friend zone!! If she accepts all those things graciously and is willing to accept your semi romantic gestures, she likes you.
First find a way to ask her if she has a bf, and then ask her if she would like to date. Its ok if she says no. Doesnt mean she doesn't like you.