lately i have been really depressed i feel totally left out from my family especially yesterday i had to get a pic. for school(i am in high school) and it reminded me my sister has over 400 pictures no exaggeration and i only 3 pics when i was a baby.and i my whole family revolves around my older sister my cousins my mom and dad aunts.over the years i felt so much like that since 7th grade i have wanted sex and the more i am depressed the more i turn to boys and i always promised myself to be a virgin until marriage but i noticed the reason i turned to guys for comfort is because of my family.and i am afraid i will end up really turning to guys there are two guys in my class that know i am venerable to that i overheard them saying they were going to try to pass me down.what do i do.
Update:what really bugs me that i am nicer to people than my sister
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This is a tough age to deal with these types of issues. This reminds me of how I felt when I was that age. I'm a 26 year old guy and the youngest of 4 kids. My parents were always trying to compare me to my other siblings and why I couldn't be a perfect mold of the best characteristics of the other 3. It made me feel worthless at the time. So at that time I vowed to be the nicest person to other people I could be. I made lots of friends that way. I had girlfriends, that came and went, but my friends were always there for me. I'm still close friends all my friends from high school.
So I would suggest to hold on strongly to your the values that you hold dear to you and don't comprise them for anybody. Don't have sex if you aren't ready. Surround yourself with people who care about you and always treat people they way you would want to be treated.
Find new friends.
Don't hang out with guys you know will take advantage of you. Pull yourself up and start walking.
Talk to your family about how you feel, you might be surprised to see that they DO care and just dont' know how you feel because you aren't saying anything.
Dont turn to guys for sex because they will be taking advantage of you just like your family is...be a lesbian that will get you lots of attention.