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Many children feel that way about their siblings. Some kids are better at winning over people, that is no reason for you to make decisions that you know they are stupid.

I am not an advocate of premarital abstinence but having sex when you are too young and not ready and when you only need attention is silly.

If you don't get enough attention from your family and they are not supportive when you talk to them about your feelings you are better off trying to get an outlet with your friends or with activities that allow you to express yourself and get the attention that you need. Maybe a drama class or an improved performance at school. Find something that you are good at and which will increase your confidence and make you feel happy about yourself.

I don't think having random sex at high school will make you happy or increase your feelings of self worth. From my point of view, you have to be pretty darn confident and quite mature to be able to truly enjoy a sexual relationship.

Yes, Depression and low self esteem can definately lead to sex but for the wrong reasons. If you do it, you usually feel much worse afterwards.

I did that a couple weeks ago, and I knew I wasn't doing it for the right reason. I was doing it to make myself feel better, I knew it wouldn't. And I was right. Afterwards I felt so dirty and even MORE depressed and very worthless. Its this feeling that comes afterwards that makes people not want to have flings and one night stands. Its okay if you're doing it safely and for the right reasons, but in this case it sounds more like low self esteem.

You don't have to turn to just guys for comfort. You can turn to friends, throw yourself into a passion, interest or hobby you really enjoy, hanging out with people who care about you, or just working to better yourself. It is good you have identified what is deeply upsetting you, you need to address that instead of turning to sex. Sex would just be a bandaid covering the wound, but the wound wont heal.

Perhaps speak to a school counsellor about whats upsetting you?

Take care and goodluck

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GIRL YOU SOUND LIKE A VERY SWEET PRESON TO BE HONEST I KNOW FAMILY CAN BRING YOU DOWN IN MANY WAYS BUT TO BE DEPRESSED AND TURN TO SEX FOR COMFORT IS MAJOR. TO BE HONEST IM KINDA THE SAME WAY WHEN I WAS YOUNG I WAS MOLESTED BY MY DAD AND AS I GOTTEN OLDER I ALWAYS WANTED SEX, AND IT GOTTEN TO THE POINT WHERE AS I HAD A BAD REPUTATION, UNTIL THIS DAY I THINK OF IT STILL, ITS NOT OUR FAULT ITS JUST THAT CERTAIN TRIALS AND TRIBULATIONS IN OUR LIVES SCREWED US UP JUST TRY TO KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED AS HARD AS IT MAY SOUND YOU CAN DO IT! TRAET YOUR BODY LIKE A TEMPLE YOU AND YOUR BODY DESERVES IT!

locate new buddies. do no longer carry out with adult adult males you comprehend will take great element approximately you. Pull your self up and start up strolling. communicate on your loved ones with regards to the way you experience, you are able to desire to be shocked to make certain that they DO care and in simple terms dont' comprehend the way you experience considering you at the instant are not asserting something.

Yeah, I agree. You sound really nice and you should keep your head up and wait for the right guy, not guys who 'pass you down'. Good luck!

Dear, dont.

One day you'll wish you saved it for that special someone.