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im sorry u feel that way =( hmm maybe he left cuz he felt that he couldnt provide u with the things u need, or he was just a coward. but watever it was u shouldnt feel unimportant.

im just feelin a little down 2nite kinda related w/my parents but long story..

I do feel let down by my Grandparents, but not by my parents. When my grandma was about 12, her mom died, and she had to take care of her 4 little brothers and sisters, since her dad wouldn't. She left them and her home when she was about 16, and moved into the city. Then, she met my grandpa a few years later, and had 4 kids starting from when she was quite young. The oldest one was my dad.

Now that all of her kids have moved out, she basically hates kids. She just stays at home and completely ignores us. I hardly know her, and next month she is coming to stay with us, even though we only have a 2-bedroom house, and there isn't really room for her to stay. (I have a brother, too.) So that bugs me. Also, my grandpa was an avid smoker, and now he has lung cancer and is dying. He had a stroke when I was born too, so I don't know him either.

My grandparents on my mom's side both died when my mom was about 16. So I don't know them either.

I see that your situation would be a bit worse. However, just remember: you were just a little baby when he left. At 2 years old, you aren't even in control of yourself really. So you can't change it! Don't worry, your dad may be a jerk, but that doesn't have to affect you.

I know this sounds so incredibly mean, and wrong, but there are times I absolutely despise my dad.

My dad died when I was 9 months old, so I never had the chance to know him, he left my mum as a single mum earning a low income.

I know I sound selfish, I'm more than aware of that. I realise that he had absolutely no control over dying, disease took a hold of his body to the point where he wasn't even aware.

I just hold it against him; I guess I hold death more against him than anything. I miss and love him more than everything, but the whole situation makes me angry.

I feel let down by my dad who passed away, last night i realized how mad I really am at him that he left. Now, I know there was not much I could do about him passing, but I'm mad at him for leaving, I'm mad at him for leaving my mom to be a single mom, to never see me get married ora nything like that, to never see my brother grow up.

Other than that, no, my mom is amazing, an I wouldn't trade her for the world.

It is your fathers loss.

My childs father doesnt want anything to do with his unborn baby

As far as I'm concerned it is his loss.

You need to just understand its not because there was something wrong with you, there was something wrong with him.

Not all people are made to be parents, you can never blame yourself for theese kind of things.

And I'm sure he does think about you time to time, but he clearly wasnt ready for kids, or something.

Don't blame yourself.

aw i'm sorry that happened to you. I don't really know your situation but clearly that man had some sort of serious problem to have to leave. He might have been doing it for your own good though. Who knows, maybe things would've been worse if he had stayed.

im not tring to be mean but ur dumb for one thing he probly didnt like ur mother u are probly a nice person that hurts that her farther left but dont feel bad