I'm pretty darn sure that I'm gay.
I'm sexually attracted to guys. Very much so.
I'm out.
Yet...
I feel emotionally and romantically attracted to girls.
And I think that, if I were to date/marry a woman, I would be happy.
And physical attraction is virtually non-existent.
Ideas? Explanations? Conclusions?
Update:I know that I'm sexually attracted to guys, and I'm ready to accept that I'm gay, of course. I'm out of the closet already.
But, when I examine myself further, and dig deep, I see that I feel emotionally and romantically attracted to girls.
True, maybe it's a friendship thing, but I want to know what others think of it.
I know who/what I am, I just want to know what to make of all it.
Update 3:Also, I was a flamer when I was really young (3-8), so heterosexuality was never really pressed on me. My family, whenever walking about relationships and the like, always said "girlfriend, or boyfriend, whichever happens."
I just
I don't know.
Answers & Comments
Im both romantically and sexually inclined towards guys. I have no confusion about this, and its always been that way.
Some would say you're still digesting the impetus of society to shove heterosexuality down your throat, and that you're afraid to just go and accept your real self...
But, I have a different take on this.
Perhaps you might be more inclined to cross-dressers, or transsexuals.
I dunno..guess its just a stab in the dark. But maybe.
I think that what youre feeling towards girls could be just like a friendly sort of love thing, ya know? Because if youre not sexually attracted to them then chances are you're not bi, just gay. maybe lol thats all i can say from what i read, i could be wrong cuz i don't know you or anything, but maybe.
I bet that for years you were taught that since you are a boy you will meet the right girl and marry. What you weren't told is that some boys don't. It's okay to become who you were meant to be. But it's not okay to know you are gay and act as if you didn't know that. It is cruel to your potential girlfriends or wife. Good luck finding the right man.