ok so yes i am young but please help! so i just started going out with this guy mikey. hes 15 im 14. thing are going really good with him but my friend adriaen (hes a guy not a girl lol) told me that if i dont do "things" with him he will dump me.(him and mikey are really good friends) before you get worked up no i do not wanna do things with him and i wont! So i started to get mad at adriaen and then he was like im just trying to protect you! but if you wanna get your heart broken go ahead!! also adriaen did tell me about a month ago that he wanted to go out with me but i told him hes to much like a brother to me and then he said yeah now that i think about it your to much like a sister.but if i had gone out with him i am sure he would of wanted me to do "things" with him. he also went out with one of my friends and they did do it so thats why i think that but whatever. What do you think about this???? anything will help!!
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I am a guy and i will tell you that mikey just want to do things with you. If you really like him and he really likes you then he will wait. If you do things with him he might dump you later on and he will tell all of his friends that you did things with him. You have to think in the consequences if i do it and if i don't. You are the one who decides not your friend but you.
Well, Adriean sounds a little jealous of you and Mikey. Sounds like he wants to have you for his self. So try not to pay too much attention to what he says. However, because they are really good friends dont ignore what he said either. Mikey may want you to do "things" with him, but give him a chance to let you know off hand. And if he does, leave him as soon as you can!! Staying longer will do nothing but prolong the relationship and cause your feelings to get deeper, making it much harder to leave when things get rough.
Boys are soooo silly