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Look I know men can't understand why woman don't like their men watching porn but it really is quite simply. It is wrong for a man who claims to love you to get off watching other naked chicks being sluts. It has absolutely nothing to do with the self-esteem of the woman. I mean maybe men can't help it because of the way their brains and d*cks work together. I don't know. But I truly believe that a real man, who loves and respects his partner, does not watch porn....not on a regular basis anyway. But I don't think you are a complete pig or anything. Just try to spruce things up with your partner, at least try to ween yourself off the porn and maybe occassionally, if you become closer with your partner, watch it together. If all else fails stop the addiction and just watch it once in awhile...like every month or two by yourself without her knowing. I absolutely hate porn but I know my husband must every so often watch it. I'd rather not know.

Do you choose porn over her? Does she ever want sex from you and you turn it down and go watch a porn? Because My EX husband did that to me and then I can see where she is coming from to be upset. But if that is not the situation did you ever ask her to watch it with you? Will she???? Perhaps that is what needs to happen, maybe if she was to watch it with you, it wouldn't be such a thing for you to have to do if you know that she does not mind. I cant think of the best words to say here but I hope you get what I am trying to say.

let her know how you feel, and let her be your porn star. if you really love her, than you can quit, just like smoking or drinking or anything else. Porn is an addiction. You might want to go to a reformers group. I know that sounds corny, but it does help. Even tho you only look every once in a while, obviously you need help in the area, so let people who are there to help, help. My husband broke the cycle, you can too.

Why do you have to give up porn? It sounds like you enjoy a little porn occasionally, but not so much that it is a problem. As long as you keep it under control, I say do what you want.

There's nothing wrong with watching porn just if you are watch it and not letting it effect your sex life you are in title of your own life !!

Real life should be more important then porn.Break the habit.

Try to pray & visit a psychatric

What the heck you sayin??

are you sayin your used to watch porn??

A shrink?

Counseling and prayer.