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sadly i'm in the same position, i've finely came out, relized i'm bi, but its pretty hard to find a male mate. Especially because so many guys hide it, try to just get male attention subliminally or with body language, or ware a rainbow/bi colors (pink/blue/purple in order) thats wat i do and it kinda works

There HAS to be a LGBT hang out spot in your area, you might have to travel a little, but it's worth it. Most of these places are usually underground so u might not even know it. But it's much better to meet people in person that online. I suggest you dig a little more and ask questions. I mean, you can't be the ONLY bisexual/ gay person in your area, so find out where they like to go drinking...

Try outpersonal.com

You can join for free, but if you want to get the most benefit there's a fairly cheap option where you pay a lump sum for 12 mths and get an extra 6 mths free.

You have a 'who's online' section, instant messenger, chat rooms. It's really good.

This is a good question coz I'm in the same track.

I found it when I'm not looking for it.

They come in an unexpected time.

Where are you?

Have you tied a bar/club? Sometimes they can be the best places. Plus you can look before you buy - as the saying goes!!