I am 20 lack real job experience, no H.S diploma ...what do you recommend i do?
I droped out of high school when i was 17 because of my friend...well at least i thought he was....he found out i was gay and ended up making up all these stories...that i would hit on him or i would try and touch him and so on....but it just got to a point where i just couldt handle it so i dropped out ....now live with parents, no job , low selfesteem / lack self confidence, and am constantly thinking about what other people are saying or think of me ....I'm just a mess...i need help........ I cant live with parents forever. Need to gain some kind of financial stability.....i need help....what do i do.......I'm scared........: (
Im in los angeles
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Well you are jsut lost. You feel self-counscious. Because of your sexuality, people make fun of you and ridicule you. With that, there isn't much practical stuff I can do. But you need to stay strong. There is light at the end of the tunnel; and it IS NOT the light of the oncoming train. I suggest you go to a place where you can think, and just write down on a piece of paper all your talents. What can you do. What are you good at? Then use that stuff and do job searches on the internet. Organize stuff. Plan things for yourself, and get yourself back on track. No one is going to do it for you, and until you realize that, you can't get far. So motivate yourself. Search for something that can help you move on. What do you want most to achieve? Once you get that, aim for it, take steps towards it, and other stuff will start to fall into place, which you can also then pursue. Make goals. You'll get far. Vaya Con Dios. :)
You do would desire to get your H.S degree or GED. or you would be doing the type of jobs the unlawful immigrants are doing. i'm 22 and that i began out college while i grew to become into 21 and that i'm doing high quality. So it is not too previous due for you the two. How long could a GED take to get? A 3 hundred and sixty 5 days at maximum according to probability. yet yea, that GED or degree is step one for specific. And approximately that gay factor, do no longer tell somebody till they're extremely close to to you and are you're specific they're your pal. human beings get crushed up for that kinda stuff ya understand.
Well, if you got no work experience or H.S. deploma youll have a hard time getting a job period. But the only thing that you could get is a fast food job or some other minimum wage job as a cashier. Unless you can do hard phyical labour.
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Finishing HS and getting a student loan and going into trades.
Good luck!
Get a job and work your way up. Get a GED, its equivelant to a diploma. Dont give up man, if something isnt a challenge, its not worth doing.
You asked this last night! Didn't you get any answers then? Thanks for the 2 points sucker!