Hello all,

My husband and I are half heartedly TTC. What I mean is, we're not using birth control, but I'm not charting BBT or CM or OPK's or anything. I was for a couple months, but it seemed to stress me out. The weird thing is, now that we're doing this with zero stress, my periods are becoming irregular.

October, I had a 27 day cycle. November, 33 days, and this month, 30 days. Prior to that, it was almost always 28 days.

I really thought I was pregnant this month, too! My period was late, no cramps or PMS, I was tired all the time, painful nipples, headaches, and no period. I had literally two brown spots on day 29, and then it came on full-fledged today. I took an HPT this morning (before AF came), but it was negative.

I had my gynecologist examine me in October to make sure I didn't have endometriosis or PCOS or something b/c my periods were becoming more painful & irregular, and she said I'm fine... That it was just normal stuff....

What's going on? :(