lady friendship or love?
I am 41 yrs old and married. I have a lady colleague who is 40 yrs old and married having no child. She seems to be very friendly and i hope that she has some feelings for me.I often flirt with her and she too enjoy. She looks good in saree. I told her to wear a saree for my sake. She reacted by saying that she never wear saree for somebody.I think she did not like my saying so.What is in her mind.Does she like me? how can i woo her.how to say sorry sweeetly and to know her feelings?
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You see, some people are very friendly & it is mistaken as a liking & the same thing has happened with you. She's just friendly but don't have any such feelings & that is evident from her rejection to wear a saree. She doesn't like you & no use of wooing her.
I thought I saw somewhere that you wrote you were married!
Clearly it seems that you are not focusing enough on your job and your family. Flirting is Ok within limit but never do cross the line and be loyal to your family. (The most loyal type of people do not even flirt).
She seems friendly but that doesn't mean that she is attracted towards you. Some people are polite and friendly to everyone they meet, but that doesn't mean that they are trying to flirt.
As far as asking her sorry is concerned, just say her sorry.
And as for wooing her is concerned, I don't know.
u have told that u and she had good time but when u told her wear a saree it became too possessive which may be due to the fact that ur realationship is not at that level. Always have patience and note that correct words at correct times are what which differentiates a loser from a winner.
Don't flirt with married ladies, its becomes complicated both for you and the ladies family..keep control of your feelings.
GURU ,
Just tell her to divorce her husband and marry you . Her feelings will come out and then do accordingly what you want to do
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