she has been seperated for over 2 years

the final paperwork has just been filed

she apparently wont get a court date for another 4-6 months

which im assuming she THEN will have to wait another 4-6 for.

we have been dating since last year

im in love with her

shes in love with me

she had a wedding... NOT A MARRIAGE...

they were married for 8 days.

in sc that is too long for an annullment...

she has remained married because she sees him as a friend only.. hence the want for a divorce.

im not to meet her parents who are VERY conservative until the marriage is through which i was always fine for since i assumed it would not be too much longer...

i now want to marry her

and dont want 2 years of us being together to not be known about.

that being said i understand the need for her parents not knowing until she is divorced

i just dont want us to in a way start over all we have built and felt in the eyes of her parents.

as that would obviously prolonge the time of our marriage