recently i started seeing a guy who just broke up with his ex gf anyway. few weeks into the relationship and he told me that he has a bunch of their old toys at his place and then he said that may be (im not really the dildo girl) he has something that will change my mind "a couple vibrator". ok even if i am considering a toy, i would in no way consider something that has been placed in his ex gf. that is just plain gross. i was nice and told him that if ever he wants to toy around we need to buy new toys. now, some of those toys I am okay with like cuffs, tape or stuff that only HE has used but stuff that have been inside his gf .. i just feel like throwing up a bit inside. is that weird? his response was that the dildos were expensive so why not use them again. they were cleaned very well and he sees nothing wrong with that.

he apparently also has a strap on that his ex gf used on him. i cant even believe he told me that being "on all 4" is a weird position and that being on top,that movement girls do is fairly hard for him.isnt that a bit gay?he also has some butt plugs.i am really not sure how i feel about all of this. so some sort of an input would be helpful.i've asked him before and he says he isnt interested in guys but COME ON,that is so WEIRD.he also says he isn't always in the mood and the whole strap on thing has happened TWICE.but then again, my last relationship was kind of the best relationship of my life so now anything compared to that is just ew to me.

oh forgot to mention that he is actually "friends" with his ex gf. they do some sporty thing once a week together and they hang out together because apparently they have the same friends... so... i totally find it weird. i dont know if he is still into her but he says they tried and it really didnt work out so they are done done but why would you hang out with your ex even if you have common friends.. aahhh