Physical vs emotional attraction (bi guys?

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Physical vs emotional attraction (bi guys?

I feel like I dont like girls the way I like guys. Im am emotionally and physically atracted to men. But when it comes to women it feels different for example if I have a really hot guy in class. I look at him abd think about him sexually & latter on I maybe be emotionally attracted to him but with girls . The physicall attraction is that strong and I rarely "fall in love" or really like a girl. Bt I can watch straight porn and masturbate but I kinda dont see me with a girl sexually as much as I do with guys. Is this weird am I bi think I am

If any of this matters

Im in highschool

And is always in n out of love with guys

I loose feelings quick

Also im a top who doesnt like fems

Society & Culture / Cultures & Groups / Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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I'm kind of similar. But it really doesn't matter which gender you prefer at the end of the day.

I'm bisexual. I don't really bother with labels that much, so I just tell my friends that I'm 50:50, it doesn't really matter on their gender, it depends if I like them.

Anyway, I originally presumed I was gay for liking boys. Then as I got older, I realised I quite liked girls, and I have had several crushes on girls. I still find guys much more attractive and I'd rather have sex with a hot guy than a hot girl, but I do find some girls attractive.

You could be gay, as watching straight porn is a fantasy and it is not a good judge of sexuality, since fantasies are just things that trigger hormones. Or you could be bisexual and homoromantic, which means you have sexual feelings for both genders, but only have emotional feelings for men.

Still, I wouldn't bother trying to figure out what your sexuality is, it changes constantly over time and I just identify myself as bisexual. Don't get yourself wound up over it :)