why do girls back-stab? does it make them feel better? more powerful? idk but my two like *best friends* back-stab me...and idk what to do because we have a small school so you kinda know everyone there so i cant just be like "im not going to hang with you anymore" or sm and we have same homeroom too so it would be awkward....so i told both of them when we were having a sleep over (diff times) that i did not really like my moms bf and they went to like this school picnic thing which i did not go to because i was at my dads and told a bunch a people (some people being the *popular people*) so they will tell a bunch of people! i didnt want it to be like a community thing, i dont want like him to know.....ugh just so stressed....thats kinda my story (and one of the bf's backs-stabs a lot, trying to lean off her) but i also just want to know WHY DO GIRLS DO IT? that is my main Q. thanks for looking/answering
Update:because i don't back-stab people thats why!
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Girls back stab to show dominance nd see how far they can go. From personal experience i have back stabbed if someone has made me mad enough, yeah its not the best thing to do, but when a girl feels trapped on something, everything that she can think of that will piss u off is gonna come out. She nos it will affect u personally so shes using ur weakness against u. i no the feeling of small school but there is always someone to distract u from all this drama. Give it some time nd let it blow over, things always get better cuz people learn to grow up eventually.
what grade are you in? lol oooh sweetie its not just girls its boys too they all back stab because they are all immature...then you go off to college and find out they still backstab.....
its tough when your bf betrays you like that...and really some girls do it because they think this will help them be more popular...others do it so they can feel superior.
my advice....time to find real friends. tell them you are angry and if they dont care ditch them because they are dangerous. i know its easier said than done....but you need friends to help you feel better not worse.
thats what girls do when their best friends.. and dont be stressed... ive been in and out of hospital for the past year and im on steroids and i just get on with my life...
you're a girl! don't you know why ??