hi guys
I was just wondering (im doing a lot of that at the mo lol)
I watch lesbian porn because i prefer it to 'straight' porn, straight porn kinda weirds me out i don't no why.
do you think this could be a de siding factor in de siding sexuality or is it 'normal' for females to do this?
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I don't think watching porn decides anyone's sexuality one way or another. I think people watch porn for lots of reasons: something new (like watching gay porn even if you're not gay), beastiality porn, midget porn, MILF porn, whatever...I think it has more to do with the curiosity of seeing something new than it does with an actual "attraction" to what you're seeing. I mean I know a lot of people "rubberneck" on the road when a traffic accident happens. It's not that people are attracted to gruesome things and death, it's that they are simply curious to know what happened and what the outcome looks like.
Plus, I think all these "extreme" genres of porn get made because people get desensitized to things and then need something more "extreme" to stimulate that adrenaline rush/seeing something new for the first time type feeling. It's not really a "turn on" to the porn that's getting them aroused to these more "taboo" genres...it's the fact that they are perhaps viewing a "taboo" fantasy that they have thought about but never done/seen, or just something "extreme" that they've never viewed with their own two eyes before. For many people, having a visual to go off of makes it more "real" to them, rather than relying on a mental image fantasy.
I personally like girls...a LOT, however, I HATE lesbian porn. To me, lesbian porn looks fake. It looks like two straight girls (often femme, never butch, because lesbian porn is geared towards the typical heterosexual male who is often attracted to feminine women, therefore NOT geared towards lesbians) and since the so called "lesbian" porn actresses aren't REAL lesbians, they don't know how to do things the way a real lesbian would, i.e. they don't possess the same oral talents as real lesbians. They act like they're afraid to touch it, lick it, whatever. They look like they're only doing it because they're getting paid. They never look like they enjoy it or actually WANT to do it. Plus, I hardly ever see good looking, hot, butch lesbians in porn.
But...point being, watching porn does not, and cannot, and will not determine your sexuality.
A study was conducted a few months ago to see what aroused women and what aroused men. Sensors were attatched to the genitals and heads of male and female volunteers and while they viewed images of different kinds of sexual acts, they had to say how aroused they got. What they discovered was that the women lied about what turned them on. Here are the results.
Men got aroused by looking at heterosexual porn and lesbian porn but that's all.
Women got aroused by EVERYTHING. Two men, two women, heterosexual porn, people and animals, and just animals.
So if you see something in the future that turns you on and it's something odd like that video of a monkey using a frog to masturbate with, it's okay. You aren't abnormal, it's just something all women have to deal with.
I'm not a guy but most women prefer lesbians porn because it's more romantic and loving not all of them but most of them I see and Just because you love lesbian porn doesn't make you lesbian or bi . For my case I'm bisexual and some I get attracted to the women in the porno and think about doing them .
EDIT: lots of them DO. :) that's the place i'm getting those arguments from. ---------- even with the undeniable fact that i individually am no longer anti-porn, permit me take their side for somewhat, because of the fact i do no longer think of you recognize it. maximum anti-porn feminists are actually not anti-porn via porn stars-- they are anti-porn via concept itself. it incredibly is an opinion *frequently* linked with Radical feminism*, that's way less all in favour of a female's selection and greater all in favour of changing society and society's perceptions of intercourse. Radical anti-porn feminists frequently argue some issues: First-- that the intercourse depicted in pornography is rape, because of the fact it hardly addresses the undertaking of consent** 2nd-- that porn turns females into what men might elect to work out, extremely than what they are unquestionably (objectification), and contraptions unrealistic expectancies third-- on the instant porn emphasizes the penetrative style, while many females require clitoral stimulation to come again. additionally, penis-in-vagina intercourse provides greater of a actual danger for females, via potential of being pregnant. Fourth-- back, the undertaking of consent... Andrea Dworkin believed that intercourse between a guy and a female won't be able to be completely consensual as long as men have larger social status than females, because of the fact females could have intercourse "willingly," just so as that they gained't be compelled to. it incredibly is a extraordinarily convoluted argument that i do no longer understand properly adequate to do justice to. 5th-- you're suitable, females's exploitation is a controversy... besides the indisputable fact that it is not pulled out of skinny air.*** i individually hate those varieties of questions, because of the fact there are not many Radical feminists on right here to start with, so it falls to me to guard a philosophy thoroughly at odds with my very own. definite, i think of it incredibly is silly to assert that intercourse depicted in porn is often rape. besides the indisputable fact that it incredibly is a crucial attention, that consent in a settlement does not count selection, because of the fact consent could be withdrawn at any time, and that's something to look into.
it does'nt necessarily decide ur sexual orientation...
i know gay guys who like straight porn... honestly i dno't like pu$$y so i do'nt watch it...and i met this one guy, who had lesbian porn... and he's as gay as they get...
i think u watch porn to stimulate urself.... it's something u watch to turn urself on...
now... the question is... do u fantasize about women? do u feel attracted to those women in the videos? if u r... u may be bisexual (if you still like men of course)
its probably normal... depends how turned on yu get, i guess. or it could just be a phase...
that is not at all normal...........