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Its obvious to me that you already care about your baby no matter what, because you are worried about the way you feel. I think you are truly worried over nothing. Once you see your little baby wiggling around on that ultrasound you will be completely in love and devoted to your baby.

I always said I wanted boys, because girls are harder and I hate pink. When I first saw the ultrasound I cried and now my house is filled with pink and I do not care because this beautiful little girl will soon bless my life.

So don't worry about, if its a boy you will have fun dressing your handsome little man, trust me.

This is normal and lots of pregnant women go through this..when i was pregnant with my first i always dreamt of having a boy and wanted my first to be sooo bad,i would think about it sometimes too if it were a girl but i just kept thinking it was a boy..when i found out it was a girl i cried tears of joy and was sooo happy..shes now 6 and gorgeous..With this pregnancy i want a girl soooooo bad *my last was a boy* but i have a strong feeling its a boy..even if it is i will adore my child. U will totally change your outlook when u find out..and once your baby is here when he/she looks in your eyes that first time ur heart stops..its the best feeling in the world..dont worry u will have a beautiful baby no matter what the sex..good luck!

There is nothing wrong with the way you are feeling. Lots of pregnant women feel this way. I sure did. I wanted a girl soooo bad! I just "knew" it was a girl, I bought all girl clothes and everything. Ultrasound day found out it was a boy. I was shocked! I did cry I was a little disappointed but now I couldn't imagine what it would be like carrying a girl. I think you will find that you will be happy either way. When the baby comes you will love it with all of your heart! I wish you all the best!

My sister had just given birth to a baby girl when i got pregnant - and she was so little and cute, I *really* wanted a little girl too. I figured they'd grow up close, like sisters.

When I found out that I was carrying a boy instead, I was pretty gutted for the first few days, and I guess thats normal. Regardless of the sex however - you'll learn to love them. While I get dissapointed sometimes that there is so much 'cute' things for girls, somehow i've grown attached to the idea of having a big brother for any girls I might have in the future.

The best advice I can give you is to relax, take things a day at a time, and not to get your hopes up with having either sex.

I wish you the best :) (and your not alone)

I know so many people that had this same fear. But once they found out that they were having a girl when they wanted a boy or vice versa, they came to terms with it pretty quickly and now can't imagine it being the other way around.

i was convinced i was carrying a girl at first ..and my husband and i went to get the sonogram to find out the gender..and the tech said its a boy! man was i shocked and a little upset ..but as the day i felt him move..it brought tears to my eyes and joy to my heart ..then it didnt matter what gender the baby was..i was happy i was blessed to be pregnant with a healthy baby...and its normal to think like that...it will change give it time...good luck and congrats..

No, no longer of extremely demanding artwork besides...you have become prepared for demanding artwork...as for the leaking and the decrease abdomin rigidity, he would sense as although he has dropped yet they "technically" do not drop, they descend certain, yet merely for the period of demanding artwork, what takes position is they spread out extra which makes you sense a lot less rigidity throughout except the load on your pelvic section and bladder. each little thing you're feeling is everyday ...with each and each being pregnant your ligaments stretch...with each and each being pregnant they not in any respect go back to prepregnancy power, so as meaning you'll 'sense' extra down there. loosen up you're ok.

im sure you will be just as happy with a boy as you would a girl!!!

I think that once you have your baby, you will happy with whatever it is and you will love it no matter what.

its normal... but as long as your child is healthy thats all that matters