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yeap.

Maybe you sense something he's trying to hide from you.

You should question him or others about what's going on in his life

You might have a suprise

For what Chris w said that you should pray about having sex with your bf, jee, kind of important prayer, isn't it, god will surely listen, especially if you say in sweet voice you're on birth control

I feel the same about my bf/e, but only because he's behaving badly

but you are normal for a woman,women don't like sex as much as men, we enjoy more romance it up, appreciate and respect someone, than the actual act. Did he make something that made you lose your respect for him?

What would he say if he would read your question here?

If he is a sexaholic and wants it all the time, the part about you feeling dirty and wanting to stop probably stems from the feeling that he is just using you for sex, so there's nothing wrong with you for feeling this way. Just sounds like you prefer to have the romance back into the relationship than just 'doing it'

You need to determine why you feel guilty or nasty. You need to also ask yourself why you are in this relationship. If the values that you have been brought up with teach that you shouldn't have sex before marriage and this is something that you believe deep inside, then if you really love your bf you may want to think about marriage. Then if your married you should not feel any guilt in having sex unreserved with your spouse and it can be wonderful and exciting thing. Tell your bf how you feel and if he really loves you and is not in the relationship strictly for sex he should be understanding. If he is not understanding you may be with the wrong guy anyway.

Im worried that it might be because you were raped/sexually abused as a child. I know I personally have a lot of issues with guys to.But even if you weren't it's not good if having sex with him is making you feel dirty I hope he is not forcing you but he is pressuring you to have thats not very healthy for you. You should mabye concider ending the relationship or changing it in a way so he doesnt have so much control over your relationship being centered around sex. Good Luck

you need to sit and think about this you say he is a sexaholic, well you feel the way you do because you feel like you are being used for sex and that is why it feels dirty to you. maybe deep down you know he is not the person for you.

When you said "Guys do have their needs",this is when I realized,that you've been having sex just to please "HIM". Because you said your not interested in sex anymore,you actually meant that having sex with him does not give you pleasure anymore.

Having sex with someone who is not satisfying your needs,is like having sex with a total stranger. Deep within your heart,you know the reason,why your not getting any pleasure,but your afraid to tell him,because you don't want to loose him. Staying in a relationship based on sex,is not going to get you or him very far.

(Like I said) You know what's bothering you,and you should let him know. If he's making love to you or just plain "banging" you,then you should let him know. You deserve satisfaction just as he does.

(Note) If he breaks up with you,after telling him about this problem,then (I'm sorry), he only wanted you for the sex. Don't set yourself short,by saying you don't want to loose him (This is his way of holding on to you). You deserve love that comes from the heart,not between the sheets. (Good Luck!)

Are you in a bad mood all the time? Do you have problems at work which keep you mind busy and don't let you be your self? In women the need for having sex starts from their mind. If your mind is not clear you face problems like this.

First off were you raised that sex should be saved for marriage ? If so maybe you are feeling the guilt of your morals.Secondly have you been sexually abused as a child ? Most of the time that will haunt you in the future of feeling dirty after sex.

you didnt say how old you are, but maybe you are now starting to realize that premarital sex is a waste of your time and that you should be doing what is in your best interest... like school and a job, etc, and worry more about YOUR best interests and not his 'needs'

Get a checkup with your doctor. Maybe you are having on onset of problems with your thyroid. Or it could also be that another medication you are taking, such as birth control pill, is causing this.