Hi,
I am on my periods and I keep thinking about sex 24/7. I really want it but I really feel like masturbating. But when I lived with my parents everything related to sex was a taboo and disgusting and I don't know what to do . I feel disgusted and ashamed for thinking and wanting it. I don't know what to do ?
Thank You
Update:I live on my own in an apartment by myself so getting caught is no problem.
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Sex is normal and so are fantasies! We have sexual fantasies as a way for us to think about what could turn us on and satisfy us.If you want to masturbate, go ahead. If you don't, that's also fine! Do not feel disgusted or ashamed for thinking and wanting such things, it is a completely natural aspect of life. Ultimately, the decision is up to yourself. You now live by yourself, so I assume you are an adult. What do you want?
Good luck in your decision and remember, it's completely natural :)
Human beings are alike in shape but different in certain limbs or organs and functions.
Man and woman are not perfect in it as man has feminine parts or organs when woman has masculine parts or organs. Man has hard muscles wide chest penis and related organs (testis in a bag) and heavy growth of hairs on the body. Penis and testis of the man are the organs for reproduction purpose .Testis produces male sperms and the penis helps to set the semen with sperms inside the uterus through the vagina. The outburst of semen is called ejaculation and this process is supposed to be done by insertion and movement of penis in the vagina.ie intercourse.
Woman has rather soft muscles boobs on the chest wide and heavy buttocks fleshy big thighs and vagina (uterus and ovaries. inside the lower abdomen)
Woman has developed boobs to generate milk for the babies up to the age or period of time that the baby can eat solid food. The boobs are the tools to rouse sex feeling and happiness to the woman and fun making toy and an attraction for man
Breast development starts at the age of 9 or 10 and it come to it full growth at the age of 17 18 or 19. But all are not alike and hence the age cannot be taken as stage for a certain size of the breast. Heredity everyday food taken exercise drinking water sleeps all these factors affect the growth of every organ of the body.
A boy becomes a matured by physical growth at the age of 18 but a girl comes to maturity by 15.( Reproduction ability of both are developed by 13 for girls and by 15 for boys.) It would be better , if both have a difference of 3 years of age for the marriage and the suitable age for marriage for boys is 20 and above and for the girls is 18 and above.
Try to have good friends both boys and girls. Have a reliable boyfriend if possible. Get some counseling if possible from a senior friend of doctor.
You have every right to masturbate however you should probably make sure no one is around and you probably shouldn't while on your period because its unhygienic and you could get blood everywhere. Masturbation is perfectly fine and common in many people no mater what age, race, gender, or religion. People do it but they obviously just wont tell you for personal reasons. Just don't get caught in the act or it might get awkward.
Sorry to say this, but it sounds as if your parents are disgusting for leading you to think sex is disgusting. We have sex organs for a reason, and a woman wanting sex while she is on is how the species got here.
Most woman tend to get that feeling when they are on or close to starting their period. It's perfectly normal to feel that way and masturbation is also considered a good way to relieve stress. Don't feel ashamed about your body's natural hormones.
There is nothing to being feel ashamed now a days all do it even me...so be patience controlled it if you not let her flow have fun!!!!good luck
go to bathroom n do masturbation
i did it jst 5 minutes ago......
Enjoy urself