Sexual fantasies?
For some reason most of my sexual fantasies include death, or the process of dying (peacefully). I seem to think it can be very romantic to die in your lover's or something like that.
Before any of you get any crazy ideas, it's nothing like necrophilia...that's just sick.
So, is there a reason for this? Maybe it's natural? Or maybe I'm just crazy XD
Update:Edit: I meant 'lover's arms'
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I don't think you're crazy. There is a theory called "La petite Mort" (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_little_death) that sexual orgasm, through 'love-making', is a small death, so to speak, of the ego. The theory, in a nutshell, says that true love making is an act in which ego centrism is killed, temporarily, as you create a oneness with another.
I'm not sure if that helps, but I don't think your crazy.
And if death is something you have fantasies about I would like to highly recommend a film to you. It's a Canadian film called "Kissed". It won a bunch of awards including a Genie (the Canadian Oscar) for best picture, and it is something I think you'd find particularly interesting. Your buddies might find it strange, but there is something very romantic about it, and indeed, your fantasies.
Here's a link:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0116783/
http://www.amazon.com/Kissed-Molly-Parker/dp/B0009...
The mind works in strange ways. It could be less a fantasy about death - which is generally unpleasant - than a fantasy about freedom from the stress of life, or having a lover take care of you. I don't know if it's natural, but it sounds romantic for me.
You might find this link interesting too: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_little_death