Hey, I was thinking before, after having a talk on teen pregnancies, like what would I do If I was pregnant, at my age (13), cos loads of girls are. What would you feel like? What would you do? I dont think I could abort my baby, I couldnt live with the guilt somehow :(
Update:Btw. Im not a ****, I think Ill wait until Im at least 16 and ready for it!
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let's just put it this way... if you are having sex get on birth control.
there really is no reason at 13 to be having sex in the first place.
i didn't even think about sex when i was that age. and babies never crossed my mind. i had sex at 16yo for the first time. we used a condom. it was a committed relationship. we didn't have sex all the time till we were much older... 18yo+
i was responsible. i knew i didn't want to be a mother at that young age/time in my life so i took the proper steps to avoid it.
really teens are so out of whack these days. babies having babies is never a good or justifiable thing.
You Are To Young Sweetie.
Dnt Be Having Sex At Your Age.
Wait A Few Years, Maybe When You Are 16.
At Least Then You Ae Actually Legal To Have Sex And Have Left School.
If You Did Become Pregnant I Would Say Go Ahead With Your Pregnancy And Either Keep The Baby With You Or Let It Be Adopted.
At The End Of The Day It Will Be Your Des ion.
Don't Do Anything I Wouldn't Do. X
It's not that great. Don't get pregnant because other girls are pregnant too. I'm 15. I'm pregnant. I know. I haven't felt the baby move or anything. I just found out. I'm sure that will be pretty cool though. But I can't stand morning sickness. Gr. It is driving me crazy. I feel terrible. Telling my parents was really hard for me. I cried. I didn't want to cry. But, I did. They were really upset. I couldn't abort a baby either. That's why I'm not going to. I am not giving the baby up for adoption either. I would hate to have the baby I carried for nine months go off and live with someone else. It would drive me crazy.
Well, l am 16, and personally, if l was pregnant, l would be ashamed, stupid and confused.
I would feel like my life has ended, basically. Because involving a baby is a massive responsibility.
I would keep my baby. It would be my responsibility, l would face up to it. And my boyfriend WOULD help me, because he wouldn't just turn his back. He said he would never do that and his mum does want to be a grandparent. After all, l will NOT get pregnant till l am ready for kids to be bought into a home full of care, love and enough money.
I've been thinking about that too. I would feel a little overwhelmed but determined for my baby to have a good life. I would tell my parents and keep the baby. THEN I would tell my boyfriend. I wouldn't abort unless I was in a bad financial situation and/or couldn't take care of my baby (and with the amount of awful foster/adoptive homes in the world, I wouldn't give my baby up for adoption either because of the abuse, at least I know he/she'd be safe with me).
I'm 17 and 3 months pregnant. If you have the support from your family, like I do, and your sure your boyfriend isn't going to leave you, then at least you've got a support system going. At 13, you should not be having sex, definately not. But hey, people do. Ummm, to tell you the truth though, most people are not going to accept a pregnant 13 year old, as they do a 17, almost 18 year old ! Think about it. If you cannot abort the baby, same in my case, it's way to sad to kill something that it was YOUR fault, then you are going to have to face the consequences ! & make the best of it. :) Unfortunately, I never got the talk, although of course I knew how to not get pregnant, I decided to do things the wrong way. But, turns out, I'm happy to be having a baby!
Im 13. And pregnant. And im having my baby and keeping it.
I've lost some of my friends. And my ex doesn't know that I'm pregnant. He actually moved away and I don't know where. So i'm going to be a single teenage mother. You don't want to have to go through this kind of stuff.
And it's even harder for me because the only support I get is from my best friend who's also pregnant. So,... use protection.
When I had sex for the first time [at 15] the condom broke.
All these thought went running through my mind, and i eventually decided that if I was pregnant I would have the baby then put it up for adoption.
Luckily i wasn't pregnant, but i've been on the birth control pill since then [now 21], and using condoms too.
I've learned my lesson.
I am 13 and I wouldnt have sex in the first place BUT I think I would have the baby and put it up for adoption, I wouldnt want to have to put a kid through that, i could just be the babys older sister if i had a baby now, and i wouldnt be able to support it!
Dont do it, im 14 and ive just had the biggest scare of my life!! a couple of months ago me and my bf was at a party and one thing leaded to another and well a couple of weeks almost a month i felt sick quite abit and i had no one to go to! cause i know they would all be disapointed in me if it had came out that i was pregnant! soo i took a pregnancy test and it came out negative thank god! cause im really not that sort of girl!! just wait thats all i can say (: