Why do Men loose Intrest ?
I have been married for 8 years now. Once and awhile my Husband seems like he is loosing intrest in me and our relationship. I dont exactly understand why he goes through this? I consider myself pretty, I keep up with my looks. Other Men look at me, but my Husband seems to play this game. If Im going out with my friends all the time or if his friends tell him im good looking then he acts intrested. But in the mean time, Im tired of playing games and I just want him to WANT me. What should I do?
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I think its sex mainly, you have to keep it exciting!
Talk with him about that.Ask him what he really want of you,what he want to improve, or change in the relationship for both.Communication, and to be a good listener, is very important in all relationships.Good question.
Good luck.Ask him what is the reason he is loosing interest in you.
Maybe he want to do something different,but he need to tell you.
Some men,not all men,loose interest in their partner; because
they want to spicy the relationship,doing almost everything in a
new way.Ask him,he knows exactly what is happening.
i have been married 28 years and yes sometimes you lose interest but that does not mean you do not love the person. I use to love to play sports and i do not play as often but i still love the game. your marriage is constantly changing and growing sometimes there will be times when it feels like you are distant. Just talk to him and tell him how you feel.
They are used to routine and used to you being there. It makes you more like a friend than a wife. Try doing something spontaneous or something new to suprise him.
Get a notebook, and write down everything you want him to do you. Look at it often, and then start picturing him showing you more affection. (day dream). Ok, it will work.
Let me know how it goes.
Believe you are already getting the attention.
i think its more emotional, although everyone say men are visual yes but consider the source, are you the smart mouth kind of girl? always have to prove him wrong? always have to have the last answer?
do you try to second guess him? is your family always there?
i don't know you so i am trying to guess why he is uninterested in you, seems like men don't know how to love their wives anymore.
Hes probably just used to you...Im sure he loves you. He may just feel like he doesnt have to impress you anymore. I would have a serious conversation with him about it. Just let him know how it makes you feel..
Part of their brain shuts down once they get married. Not your fault, its just the way it is.
It isn't just men.
I lose interest quickly also, thank goodness I am not married though.
looks like divorce is coming on