As shallow & superficial as this will sound but i just want to know your thoughts on this. I am 24 & in a long term relationship with my boyfriend and its pretty much marriage material. The thing is that I am not really physically attracted to him but I think I do love him..I mean, what is love really??..I think the reason I'm staying is because I don't really want to go back into all that dating/single drama again. And also he is financially very well off which is something i guess all women want.. I don't want to be worried/stressed about bills/morgage payments etc in the future. I don't think I believe in love. I think if you stay with a person long enough you will grow to like (love) them..I know i sound cynical/pessimistic/stupid even..but thats how i feel. But I do have brothers who I would give my life for..I guess thats Love..When you will give your own happiness for another? What are your thoughts/advice on this? Anyone in the same situation? Or have been where I've been?
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I've been there. My philosophy is that people in relationships are not going to stay looking good for ever. Afterwhile, life and gravity takes its turn. True love to me is whatever you make it that you are willing to do or give for. No one can tell you whether you are in love. You just know it.
Love really exists Its undescribable but you sure do know when your there its like your on cloud 9 and nothing can get in your way.1 kiss makes you dizzy when its true love.