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I had this experience when I was in high school. The girls hanging out around my crush were trouble makers and he always expected me to just come up to him regardless. He ended up "choosing" another girl...his excuse was I wasn't willing to make an effort. And that was bull. If a guy isn't willing to make the effort to tell the girls he doesn't like to scram(in a nice way of course) or when he sees you, ditch the b's and come right to you, he isn't worth dating. Just imagine how it will be if you were a couple....it will always be a problem guaranteed. Some guys get a thrill out of girls fighting for their attention. Keep your dignity and class!!

Well, if he wants you to talk to him more, he's just going to have to find a way to get rid of those other girls. I think that if he knows that you don't like them then he'll find a way. Nothing you can really do, honey. It's all up to him. Explain to him that you don't like those girls and don't feel comfortable talking to him around them. If he wants to talk more, then he has to take the next effort.

ok this is what you do... facebook him... or myspace him whichever.... tell him to meet somewhere or tht you should hang out and after he replies tell him that a few friends are going to the movies or whatever and that way you are with your friends who will not be all up on him! quality time to talk... or just whenever you run in to him tell him something like hey we should go talk on free period or sit at lunch something smooth yet still lets him now that you want to talk to him...

ok heres the answer he likes you right? and you like him? its time to comprimise you guys need to try to start dating a bit with just the two of you and see how that turns out but you shouldnt push him away from these girls thats the worst thing you could do because it might push him away from you cause he might think you way to jealous. I dont know if he cares about that but you shouldnt keep him away from people you may not like it just says that you trust him and that shows good character in you i was dating this girl and she had this friend that as soon as we started to date she became mega-***** but she was her best friend and i was cool with that just keep her away from me so just try to make it clear with him that you dont want to hang with him around them and he should if he likes you start talking to you away from them good luck

try to find time for just you two. either a phone call, instant message, or any other way you're comfortable with. if you don't want to talk to him with the other girls around, then don't. if he likes you as you say he does, he'll make efforts to do the same. =)

i would try and do a class project with them or something. get them to tutor you in a subject, or you them, etc.

If you just try talking in the social situation, or perhaps, like someone said, slip the phone number.

or invite a giant group out of friends, and innocently suggest that ___________ come along?? they may say ask yourself, so you can then score their number...

hope it helps

Out of sight out of mind.

If you can't make any kind of impression on him then you better hope that he's actually already madly in love with you. Otherwise it's game over for you.

Talk to him tell him to tell the other girls to leave him alone if he really likes you he'll do it just for you but if he don't then just find someone else there's other fish in the sea. Trust me. :)

Let HIM seek out time with YOU. If he does, he cares.

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slip him your phone number on the sly,or shoot him a text. smooth sailing from there...