Boy Troubles;?
My friend likes this guy ALOT, and he likes her too. But he made out with another girl and now he is dating her, he wants to break up with the other girl, so that he can go out with my friend. My friend is now depressed that he already has a girlfriend right after he asked her out. What should I do to make them feel better. Also I am friends with the boy, the other girl, and well my friend. I dont want anyone mad at me. He keeps asking me to help him decide weather or not he should break up with the other girl. What should I tell him too?
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Oh God, you're really stuck in the middle. Sorry 'bout that sweetie.
First you need to find out whether or not that boy likes your friend more or that other girl. You need to also prepare your friend for whatever may come. Support them both but don't make the decisions for them. That's all friends can do, and if they get mad at you for being supportive they are being unreasonable.
You have to be able to choose. Who's your better friend? Who do you think would make the guy friend happier? and Do I really want to break up a couple? If the first friend you mentioned is the better friend, would be a better girlfriend to the guy friend than his currrent one, and if you are prepared to stand up for what you thought was the right thing to do, then pick the first friend. If not, leave yourself out of the situation.
Who does he like more? If he likes your friend more he should break- up with the other girl. But, if he likes the other girl he should stay with her. Ask him this. This may or may not work, it depends on the situation.