I love my boyfriend [the one I'm with now!] to death!
Our 6 month anniversary is Next Sunday! [27th]
But. I have a problem...
My ex [the one I was with for 10 months]
We talked for 4 1/2 hours last night online
and he's been having some trouble and
he told me just last night
that he still loves me, and that he misses me...
[This has been going on since Late November/Early December]
I dont know what to do...
I love my current boyfriend!!I LOVE HIM!!
But I also miss my ex sometimes...just sometimes...
But, I dont love my ex...
I TRIED to win him back, but I couldn't...He wouldn't let me but now that he wants me back, this is gonna be hard..
My ex is cute, and he's funny and he made me happy...but there were some things I just didn't like about him...
My love now... I LOVE HIM... but there are still some things I dont like about him...xD
Help??
Pwease??
I'm 16..[17 in nov]
My ex is 16...[17 in aug]
My current bf...18[just turned 18]
Answers & Comments
Verified answer
This happens throughout life.
I am 30 and married. I love my husband, but there are things I can't stand about him.
I don't want to get back with any of my Xes, but sometimes I miss certain things about every single one of them or fun times we had.
One thing I have learned is, you have to keep moving forward in life. There is too much in life to experience, so no need to repeat something you tried but found isn't working for you.
I had my first boyfriend at age 16... and then I had boyfriends in college... and boyfriends as a young professional woman... and now I have a lovely husband. If I kept "revisiting" my first love, I would have missed all of those other experiences.
Enjoy what you have with your current boyfriend, and do your X a favor by cutting him loose so he can move forward too.
I would tell you that you are too young for all this, but I'll give you the same advise I gave my daughter who had a baby at age 16.
Except for maturity what else has changed about you that your ex want you back? That's right! You got another boyfriend and you are no longer chasing behind him. So see, it's not that hard after all. They both got there good points as well as there bad, but the difference is ........... love can overshadow the imperfections in your boyfriend. Only stupidity can cover the faults in your ex.
Good Luck and remember neither of them deserve anything more than you are willing to discuss with your parents first!
This is going to happen with most Ex's if you got along great. its normal. but than again, he's your Ex for a reason isnt he?
I say, focus on what you have now with your boyfriend.
Its not a crime to think about your Ex and miss him, But then again if you have a boyfriend now, why even bother to waste thoughts on the ex.
you obviously like/love your boyfriend very much.
This is a tricky one.
But the most common thing to say here ( which suxs ) would be.... follow your heart!
( Forget Your Past, Live For The Present )
Good Luck.
I would tell him, You know I tried to win you back and yet you didn't want me. I'm happy now, I don't believe that you want to take my happiness away from me.
Hmm, just become friends with ur ex and stay wit ur bf. who knos maybe in the future u'll be wit ur ex...