compliment or insult?
my boyfriend told me about this conversation that he was having at work with his friends and i dont know what to think of it he said that his friend asked if he would ever cheat on me and my bf said yes if in the right situation and someone better came along and then said that he doesnt think that there is anyone better out there than me and i am the best thing that ever happened to him i felt a bit hurt by what he said and he has always been bad with words and said that he was being nice what do you think.
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Ouch! Something better comes along? How could being thought of as possible second rate be a compliment? Is he saying that he's keeps an eye out for a better girlfriend? The question should be, could there be someone better than him? A real man who knows what he real wants and doesn't question it. A man who can realise what he truely has. I don't see how anyone couldn't see this as a hurtfull remark. I noticed someone commended his honesty. I disagree. If he is interested in killing time in a relationship before jumping into the next "better" one, he sould have been truthful about it. On the flip side, there is a chance that he was talking big in front of his male buddies, which is still inappropriate! If it's more important to impress his freinds while hurting you, there is still a problem. I hope you 2 are able to work it out. Good luck
It may seem somewhat unromantic, but the fact is that there is always someone out there in the world that is more perfect for either you or your man, however, the chances of ever meeting that person are very, very remote. I would not say what he said was an insult but I can certainly see how you might also not take it as a compliment.
He was being honest, though, which accounts for something. If you are honest with yourself, you might imagine that there is someone out there in the world that is more perfect for you than he is, for example, someone who doesn't say such things?
my bf said the same thing to me about me. He said if he wanted to cheat on me he would be things would be over in a heart beat. so really he wouldn't cheat on me if he ended it with me first. if he says he thinks you are the best thing that has ever happened to him and there is no one else better take what he said before that with a grain of salt. He probably wanted to seem some what tough in front of his friends but at the same time let them know that he is happy with you. Relax, everything is fine.
Oh dear.....well those aren't really encouraging words, in fact they are a bit tactless. Maybe he was genuinely trying to make it out as a compliment?
hey..y u felt a bit hurt?it a compliment!!
It is what it is. He's made it clear that he'll leave you as soon as he finds something better.
Aww i think thats really sweet of him!! *Giggle's*
Defently a compliment... :-)
if he trully does love you he would have said NO i would never cheat on my girlfriend/wife.
itsa compliment!!! 100%