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That happened to my bfs sister. She was with this guy for years and were talking about getting married. Well when they broke up she started dating this girl. He reason for it was she kind of always felt like she wanted to be with a girl and that's pertly why her relationship didn't work out with her bf. So I don't think you made her a lesbian. Maybe she is confused or something she felt like she wanted to do before even dating you. Why even worry about it when you didn't even want to be with her?

Sometimes when you feel like you failed, you look for other ways to help yourself achieve success.

Same goes for relationships. When you go through a break-up, you eventually end up dating someone else, right? You follow a failed relationship with a potentially successful one. Maybe it's not the right person for you, but you're exploring your options.

Pretty much sounds like that's what your ex-girlfriend is doing. I'd doubt she'd be naive enough to assume that EVERY guy will be worthless to her, so I don't think anything really that YOU personally did had anything to do with her to decide to switch teams. She's most likely just trying to figure out what really DOES make her happy, and maybe she's got a few doubts about her attraction to women. A lot of girls I know go through a bi-sexual phase.

Don't take credit for what seems to be the obvious - a young girl trying to find out who she really is, and what she really wants from life.

Good luck with the new girl :)

first off, what dumb *** dumps his girlfriend for a girl he's known for a few days?

what are you in, middle school?

and no, you don't turn someone gay because you dumped them.

it sounds like you didnt even know your girlfriend, so shes probably been bi.

and if not, shes just "exploring" as the other girl put it

Wow, u are full of questions!

Maybe you helped your ex realize that women are just better, and now she's playing ball on the other side of the fence.

oh that sucks maybe shes a weirdo, you know you only forget about someone when you find someone new you care more about and that's when your ex. will realize that she fuked up... i say i eat the pizza and see other people you know like hang out, have fun their is plenty of people out their... if she just left you like that, then she's not worth it... well good luck, (:

No it was not your fault..But you won't be with the new girl for long. She will leave you for a more attractive guy...Don't be to shallow for the long haul. Looks fade, nice never does...

Not necessarily a "fault", but maybe you indirectly contributed to it.

She probably already had an attraction to women and was curious about it. If anything, breaking up with her might've pushed her closer to trying it out.

Wow, you left her for a new girl, you will leave this girl too !

Well I hope I never meet any fellow like you in my life !

If anyone that is abnormal, that is you !!!

If you were really harsh...maybe she lost faith in guys because of you.

But I've heard that girls that have gotten dumped just want to explore the other sex, see if it's less painful.

No! If she went for another girl after you it's probably because she herself wanted to. She's probably just Bi and you never knew it.