Do I deserve Love even if I'm "Different"?
I often ponder what my future wife will look like, or be like.. Though I know she won't be perfect. But then, I wonder why I even deserve love in the first place. I have good morals, I guess.. and I guess a good mind. But to be honest that's all I have.. I'm not that great looking, and I'm really shy and quiet so people generally look past me, or see me as invisible... But, does that exclude me from having love.. At the moment i'm quite befuttled.
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Ah, you are fine. Just find subtle ways of being outgoing like going to a movie or telling a hilarious joke. It is hard but it will help who you are. Makes you well-rounded, I guess you can say. But don't try too hard otherwise people might think you have to please them all the time.
No one is excluded from love. Being shy and quiet is a good thing. I'm shy and quiet, my boyfriend is shy and quiet. When I saw him I knew I wanted that so I just started maing conversation with him knowing I would be turned down but he tried to talk back and couldn't, it was cute. What I'm tryin to say is someone has got to give. I gave it a shot expecting to be turned down already but my "gutsyness" helped me.
oh my god, of course you deserve love, you above all people deserve it.
it takes time to find someone that is compatible.
you sound lovely, you shouldn't worry