Seriously am i that disgusting or something cause i always get hurt and rejected amd it sucks amd no one cares that i hurt all the time but am i that gross to be with i try to lose weight but girls rejection makes me quit and want to give up i hate my life because there's this girl who I like and she is 4 years older than me and she is completely out of my league and I want to be with her so badly but she only sees me as a kid I'm very fat very short I'm very ugly I'm very poor and she will never give me a chance because I know I'm just not good enough for her and she's with the guy who just goes and gets drunk with his friends and doesn't appreciate her like I could I want to do everything I can for her to make her the happiest girl in the World but just seems like I can't because she will never see me more then just a friend and I can't stand it I'm sick of being the friend I'm sick of being friendzoned I'm sick of not getting a chance and its not fair I want for things to be different for me but nothing ever changes I'm always denied rejected or Passed over and everyday I want to just shoot myself in the head because I know that I have no chance with her but I still don't want to give up but I can't stand the idea of her rejecting me because it will literally rip my life apart can someone please give me any advice on maybe on how to lose weight or how to get taller the better looking because I'm a complete ugly sack of s-h-i-t and it breaks my heart and makes me miserable how someone else gets to feel her breath on his neck and clings on his waist every night when they go to bed when I go to bed crying wishing she could be in my arms everytime they kiss i get two thoughts one i wanna.beat his.head in with brass knuckles and two i want to find a gun and blow my.brains out here's what I look like I have to warn you you might need therapy after seeing my picture I'm hard to look at
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OMG stop! You aren't even that bad looking! By the way you describe yourself, i was expecting to see a hideous beast. You look really nice.
If you really feel that conscious about your weight, then you NEED to start eating healthy! & start working out. Just know that giving up will cause this depression & keeping at it will eventually bring you to happiness. I honestly think if you lost the weight then you'd be mega hot. That's not even a lie. Keep at it & stay strong.
I want to start this off by saying that you shouldn't be so hard on yourself! You may not be the skinniest guy I've ever seen but you are definitely NOT fat! And you may not be the cutest guy in the world but you are not ugly! Not all girls care about looks ya know, like me i have a crush on a guy and hes definitely not the cutest guy at my school, but he's him and I like him for his personality. Don't sell yourself short! And your right. It's not fair. You seem like a great guy and any girl would be lucky to have you. But I'm telling you right now to forget her. She's not worth your time. And I never thought a guy could feel the way you do. Not being sexist I just never imagined a guy could feel as I do. And remember don't do something your going to regret. And as for weight loss try eating alot of fruit, no junk food. And exercise is a MUST!
Dude u gotta man up for 1 thing. Trust me, i know its just about the worst thing to like a girl who doesnt even know u exist or that doesnt feel the same way back, but thats lufe. Ur not the only one to have this happen to them. Girls dont just like guys that look like Brad Pitt. Fact is girls are less visual than guys and looks are not as important to girls as personality is usually. Girls love confidence and thats wat u obviously lack my friend, u gotta love urself first before anyone else will. Fat guys get pretty skinny girls all the time man and its got a lot to do with confidence. I know it's hard but just start talking to girls u like and if they dont talk back to u then screw that girl cuz shes too superficial and not worth ur time. Btw as u get older this all gets easier, just hang in there, learn to develop confidence and a good personality and also maybe join a gym and exercise to lose weight as this will help with confidence and ur overall self esteem. GL hope i helped and plz dont sound as needy or sorry for urself like u did in ur question when talking to girls cuz they wanna talk to and be with happy guys not ones that are threatening to blow their brains out cuz they cant get 1 girl. Theres a sea of em out there, go fishing per say (lol) and ull hook one if u learn the art of confidence!!!
it breaks my heart to know you feel that way about yourself! you are not bad looking at all, you're handsome and you're not fat. but if you really do wanna lose weight, start by eating clean and healthy, and start working out. don't eat too much sugar and carbs, eat a lot of veggies and fruit. reduce your meal portions, but instead of eating 3 times a day, eat 5 times a day.
for the girl, i think you deserve so much better. i promise you that if you wait, you will find a girl who will love you for who you are deep inside. just wait :)