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For me, it depends on what he's actually competing for.

it depends how competitive. The guy I'm dating is competitive, but not to the point of annoyance, lol. In other words, he makes a joke about it.

It depends on what he's competing for... Sports, relationships, school, etc.

Erm, it can be a bad thing, but for me its a nuetral.

i like guys who are cocky, so for me it's a good thing.