Ok, so i'm in college, and a couple of my friends and I get together and play Ultimate Frisbee a few times a week. Well this one time a girl asked if she could play w/ us. We let her play and me and her just started talking as the game went on. The next time we played, she showed up again w/ some of her friends and we had a bigger game. This time, she was on the opposite team and would always guard me and be around me and kept on repeating my name and be like. After we played, she gave me her number and told me to text her whenever we we gonna play frisbee. One of my friends told me that he noticed some vibes between me and this girl. I do like her, but i'm not sure if she likes me. It's been 5 days since i talked to her last, and tonight i saw her out playing frisbee with a whole bunch of other guys. She didn't text me that they were gonna be playing though. I would like to start a relationship with this girl, but how should i go about doing so without coming off as a freak? Do i say anything about not being invited to play tonight? I really like her but am not sure if she likes me back
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Well, to begin with, I wouldn't say anything about her playing with the other people, as it seems you have not had THAT much interaction. But I would plan to play another game again soon, and pay some special attention to said girl. After the game, I would text her saying "good game" and broaden the topic a little by asking her if she "kicks *** at any other sports". Hopefully, this will help you guys talk about something other than frisbee. If you have a real connection, it will show and more than likely you won't have to continue to guess if she likes you anymore once you start talking. But take things slow, and things should be good!
dude 5 days is a long time lol, you probably still have a chance to see if shes interested
text her with your buddies to play ultimate frisbee, afterwords ask her out for a drink (with or without your friends)
sorry self inflicted