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Dude, I'm 17 and i haven't had sex. I know im not a loser and i don't see why you should even be thinking about having sex right now. having sex doesn't make you cool. Respect your girlfriend man, if she doesn't "put out" leave her be,don't force her into anything. And your an older brother? Have a talk with your little sister, if shes having sex at her age you she might have some self confidence issues and if she doesn't just make sure she doesn't go down the wrong path

I hope you don't take offense to any of this, just saying man, having sex isn't everything in life. there are consequencess as well.

Dude you are not a loser! Why don't you get your self esteem in check and not follow what people do but what u do! Just because ur sister had sex doesn't mean she won't regret it later. If u love ur girlfriend respect her feelings if you can't and u want to be a jerk than u shouldn't be with her or deserve her. You kno life isn't all about sex because look around kid STD's is everywhere and even protection can't block it all.

You're not slider because you waited longer to have sex. I'm 18 and I know a lot of guys who really want to have sex because they're horny and it's not a good reason. I don't want you to think I'm telling you what to do I'm just trying to tell you that you should think about it more and see if you really want to have sex. If your girl friend doesn't want for have sex it's because she's not ready or she's just doesn't want to. Trust me after you do it and you guys maybe break after a while you'll regret it. Just calm down and find different ways to satisfy yourself.

Hey man I know it can be tough in this generation and all to have sex and stuff. First off your not a loser! Secondly having sex isn't everything.

No you are not a loser. Just give your girlfriend some time. It depends on how long you have been dating.

Hold the **** on. The girl is smart not to just start having sex. Give her time.