Ok well, let me begin by saying thanks for reading this and i just need input and suggestions on what to do.
First off there's this girl I like, which I've never actually met. I'm aware that is kind of weird but we have talked and texted A LOT in over 2 months and we met on a dating site thing. We are pretty much together but not officially. I've never got along with someone this good before and she seems like an amazing girl except for one thing.
She seems to avoid meeting me. We talk on the phone an hour a day on average, send funny pictures, texts pretty much nonstop. We even even say we love each other, and I mean it, as weird as that sounds.
Why is she avoiding meeting me then? I don't think it's on purpose, she might seriously be busy or just nervous. (We talked about how we are both nervous)
One other thing is .... well I'm pretty much whipped. She tries and make me feel guilty when I do something she doesn't approve of. One time I jokingly hung up on her, ( 100% sure she knew I was joking) and she freaked out and said I was just like other guys and I don't care about her. She's even going to prom with another guy (just as friends, she doesn't sound like the cheating type and I'm not being naive) She seems disgusted by cheating so I'm not to worried. But I allow her to do or say whatever she wants and I put up with it. I want to make it work so bad, because she seems perfect for me and she's amazing that I believe I am digging my own grave but I can't stop.
How can I make this work without becoming her pet dog now that she already bought the leash and I just now realized I don't need it to go for a walk? << I'm proud of that analogy lol
Another thing is, because she lives an hour away I tend to flirt a lot with other girls. One of these girls is extremely pretty and she helps me with our relationship problems. I am very flirtatious and I can't stop even though I really want to. But this girl can't provide all the attention, especially physical since she an hour away. Her nervousness or busyness isn't helping this either. I have no feelings for this other girl I only have them for the one. How can I stop myself from flirting, without ruining our relationship?
Sorry if that was long. I am not here to whine, I am determined to fix this problem myself because I caused it myself. Thanks for suggestions or comments in advance.
Answers & Comments
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Be a little more forward in actually going out on a real date. Just drive the one hour, it's not that far. Also buy her flowers and impress her mother. I think once you actually meet her and if it's meant to be the feelings will grow stronger and you won't have a problem flirting with other girls. Bottom line: you two need to meet up! The relationship can't grow without that.