My boyfriend keeps asking me if I have any special things I want to try in bed... I told him, and he didn't really say anything in particular; I think he may have been offended, like it wasn't good enough before or something. Anyways, after reassuring him that I had enjoyed our previous sex, just that I would also enjoy this, I asked him if there was anything he would like to try, or any sexual fantasies or special positions or anything like that... but he just said "I cant think of any". Every time I have brought it up, he looks at me like I'm weird and says that he cant think of any. I find this so hard to believe... I mean, doesn't every teenage boy watch porn and whatnot? I feel like he MUST have some sexual desire that he isn't expressing for whatever reason. How do I get him to tell me what it is? Or is it possible that he just has none?
Update:Also... its not that he is not enthusiastic or anything in bed, he is very enthusiastic, and is very equal and all that. Which is great. :)
And yes, we are teens... I am 18, he is younger. We are each other's firsts..
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I dont have any sexual fantasies but whatever makes my girlfriend happy im down to do what ever she wants ;)
Teenage boy?, if you are teenagers how much sexual experience did you expect him to have. In order for him to know of other positions ect he would have had to have been involved with other people before that tried new techniques that he has yet to use on you, or have watched porn which most sites require people to be over 18 to go on and if his parent's do have any type of parental locks on the computer it's not unreasonable at all that he hasn't watched porn yet or just doesn't have a desire to not everyone watches or even likes porn.
Maybe he is just shy. I asked my boyfriend the same but he didn't really think of much so I let it go and we laughed about it. But we do talk about what we want and discuss what we'd like for each other.
And if you are a teen, just the fact that your having sex and NOT pregnant is fantasy enough
Not every teen guy watches porn. He just may not have any. Its no big deal.
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Oh poor you! He is not a real man then. Because real men are basically animals ;) obviously in bed :P
Gay. No point in discussing that with you now is there?