my husband looks at porn and sneaks around doing it, when I find out he says he is sorry. but other times he acts like there is nothing wrong with it. and that he is a man and should be able to do it and that he is not going out and cheating so its not bad. why do guys look at porn does it have to do with the way I look, I have put on some weight since I have been with him
btw I am on a friend computer so that is why it says henry
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Well, guys just like porn. There is no way to get around that. Tell him that it hurts you deeply when he looks at it,and that you would prefer that he stopped.
It has nothing to do with the way you look. Men are just pigs! There are like dogs always sniffing around for anything sexual. Trust me if you were 120 pounds and had double D's he would still look at porn. It is an addiction, just like drugs and alcohol. I dint understand it but that's what it is and its growing in to a problem big time in the USA. Allot of Husbands cheat by chatting and talking dirty on the phone to other woman they meet on line. Allot of marriages have been broking up over this. You can try counseling with him. If it is bothering you that bad, give him the it stops now or we are over. I would also check to see how much his porn is coasting the family. Sometimes its hundreds of bucks a month
Wow sounds like i a question i would post. My bf. does the same exact thing. We live together, and he alway hiding the windows or trying to delete the history of pages visited. Sometimes its funny but other times its annoying. I gained a few pounds too after having a baby,he says it has nothing to do with it, but when i see those girls they're nothing like me. So yes i wonder if hes even attracted to anymore. But im not gonna go nuts about it. Guys are just into porn. Its their nature i guess, not unless it becomes an obsession then you have a problem. I'm trying to lose the weight but im not doing it for him, im doing it for me, i want to look good and feel good. After all why should i be jealous of those girls? they're just a bunch of whores. We're worth much more then those girls. Don't let it bother you.
First, realize it is not about your looks. But also, don't minimize his behavior. Men are stimulated visually, but porn addictive behavior is warped in that it replaces an intimate relationship with imaginary fantasies. He will enjoy life much more if he uses his time presently devoted to viewing porn to getting to know you deeper and growing in your intimate relationship as husband and wife. Now, his behavior is either hurting you or at least causing you some emotional distress. Odds are his porn problem will not change, as time goes on it will have a negative impact on your relationship (I sincerely hope I'm wrong about this, but it happens most of the time). If you see this process occurring in your marriage seek a licensed marriage counselor and if he won't go,go for yourself.
I hope this helps in some way.
I seriously don't think it has anything to do with your appearance. Guys like to watch porn because it is something different. Maybe you need to spice things up in the bedroom a bit. Don't get me wrong I am not saying that you don't get the job done or that he doesn't want to be with you anymore. I am just saying that things become routine after awhile and maybe you need to find some ways of spicing it up. Have you ever sat down next to him and watched the porn with him? I have and as it turns out they are pretty hot and I enjoy them. My fiance and I enjoy watching them together then playing ; )
You could be the hottest sexiest, most unbelievable gorgeous female on the face of the planet who will do anything in bed, but some (most) guys just love porn. Do not take it personal even if it is a bit rude of him to get caught.
I don't think that it is a "guy" thing, I am 27 and love porn. I watch it more than my boyfriend does. Each person is different, but I don't think that he will change and stop watching it. Maybe you should offer to watch it with him, it might be a huge turn on for him.
well its not the way you look its cause maybe the porn girls do things you dont swallowing is the most frequent lust there looking for, or just wild sex that is more than missionary position and dirty talk just something out of the norm
well a man does bad things in life and that is one of them looking at porn is like a tool for him to learn new sex tricks.
I'm glad my girlfriend isn't a spaz and knows and doesn't care about my porn watching.
All guys watch porn.