Surviving A Lonely Valentines Day :(?
I am only 14..but i am single and dreading valentines day at school..most of my friends are either really loved up with people or have boys interested in them so are guranteed to get cards..there is also a thing at school where you can send people Chocolate hearts with a little message which i bet all my friends will be getting..
I know i am just gonna spend the day feeling really low and single =[
Any ideas on what i should do??
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I wouldn't worry about it! I am in the exact same position (Literally...my school is doing the chocolate hearts thing too! Creepy! Lol). It sucks doesn't it, but don't get yourself worked up all over it. Soon enough, a boy will come into your life, and all the boys in your friends life will go and they will be the ones jealous of you! You just have to wait!
If you really can't wait though, start hanging around with the boy you have a crush on, talk to him, flirt with him, and hopefull things between you should start happening!
Good luck, Ali xxxxx
Ha, i guess it all depends on how low you wanna go. You can do the dignified thing and just suck it up throughout the day and just know that you have a comfortable couch looking forward to your arrival when you get home, or you can cheat, or you can plan something. If you plan something that you would be looking forward to after Valentines Day, than perhaps your focus would be more towards that even than school. You could cheat and send yourself something. You could also give Valentine card thingies to other people, that way you feel better about actually doing something on Valentines and the person you give a card to will feel both happy that you gave them something and another emotion (perhaps bad for not thinking of you, etc). There are alot of ways to beat the Valentines Day Blues =)
You should find some of your friends that aren't all 'loved up' and send each other chocolate hearts, that way you wont feel left out. I'm 15 and single and I'm just spending the day with my friends!
The whole valentines day kaka is a secular world way of making $$$. I felt the same way in college. All these people going out, buying flowers, etc etc etc. In the end, it's all about selfishness on every ones part. Don't get trapped!
Hang out with friends and family and realize there is a special person out there for you. When you find him, keep your relationship above the belt and focus on selfless acts of kindness to one another. Once you find that person, every day may feel like Feb 14th.
forget approximately approximately it. this is not any enormous deal. once you bypass to college you will meet extra human beings and you may have many Valentines Days with somebody. so which you're 15 or sixteen, merely how many do you think of you need to have had with a date by capacity of now? Come on, be honest.
im 14 and i have a boyfriend and i am NOT looking forward to valentines.
he wants the WHOLE day with me and to be honest i just cannot be bothered. i wanna be in your place and do the
"eat a whole box of icecream" things.
not all your mates will be loved up. find the ones that arent and have an anti valentines day.
wait til your 30 and in the same boat!
aww hunni i feel sorry for you i never got any cards wen i was young ...but wen those lads out they realise how special u are the cards and gifts will cumin flooding ..as for this year buy urself a treat and try not too get too down..take care :)
It could be worse, you could be 25 and be having a lonely Valentine's.
Relax, you've got plenty of time.
enjoy being single. trust me. im 15 and it sucks being in a relationship. im now single. yay. save your money