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OK i am just assuming that you're a girl . so this answer is for a girl or else it will be just funny.

i am 17 years old girl .almost 18 actually .didn't lose it ..not yet.

note: i am not a loser ,and i don't mean to brag .but actually i am pretty ,smart , funny ,and one of the very popular girls at my school .still i don't feel like it .

i have a boyfriend ,and i am so in love with him .Still ..i am not ready yet ,so he better sits on his @ss and wait for me . and i know that he will because he loves me too .my bf is also so popular ,and so hot .he's hotter than any boy i've ever seen ,and gorgeous girls throw themselves at him ,also he's not a virgin,he's almost 19 ...Still,he stopped having sex with others ,and have been waiting for me ever since we've been together .

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u don't have to do it when you're 14 for any boy . if he liked you really he'll wait .

and at general , u better have it when you're in love ,and most importantly when you're loved back .then it'll be the best memory ever ,and even the most pleasure you'll ever have.

also i recommend that u wait untill you're a bit older before considering it .

I was 17.

My mum would always drill in the fact that I should wait until I find some guy who is half decent. I wasn't allowed to date until I was 16 and when I lost my V, my mum ignored me for like a week, it was quite awkward. I am now 23 and don't regret my first time.

I'm not sure about the rumens. I didn't bleed the first time. It didn't feel good, was a little uncomfortable. I had stomach pains for the rest of the day and night.

I was 19 y,o and had finished my first year of college. I was in love with the man I was dating, and I know for a fact that he deeply cared for me, too. We had been dating for several months, but had know each other as friends before we began dating. If you are afraid of pain, don't be. If you are in love, and are excited, the pain only lasts for a couple of seconds.

I didn't even consider having sex in high school. First, I wasn't in love with anyone I dated in high school. Second, it was too much of a risk. I didn't want rumors to be spread around the school, which is what happened to some of the girls who did have sex with their boyfriends.

USE BIRTH CONTROL!!! Go to a clinic and get the Pill.

Haven't yet, and for the record, I'm 17. Outside of a relationship, I'm not interested. And inside, well, my longest relationship (1 1/2 years) was with a guy who was set on waiting until marriage. So even though I was off the market and with someone, I wasn't gettin' any.

My first love was a girl named Emily. She was nineteen, and I was 15. She had just began her first college semester while I began the 11'th grade. I met her through school, and we immediately felt a connection. We dated for 5 months before we had sex. Of course, i'd like to remind you the importance of using condoms. THEY ARE IMPORTANT. Sex is great, as long as you truly feel love for another. It no longer becomes f*cking. It becomes making love. It's a very different experience.

EDIT: I'd just like to add that we were together for 2 years, and we broke up because she was accepted into Stanford and I remained at CU.