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well yes, it would b very creepy, but that's the best part about dating. u just text or tweet her saying hello, she's going 2 wonder who u r, & that's your perfect chance. believe me, if u nvr try asking her out, u'll spend a lot of time wondering "what if....." just go 4 it hun, hav no regrets

You definite nd to follow up on her otherwise you w always wonder.

Tracking her down and letting her know that should flatter her.

Part of the man's job in dating is the pursuit.

Are u both is college? Close (location) to each other?

If you are in the same area, try to run into her on the street/store/at a party.

If not, can you get her email and send her a msg like - I'm not sure if you'll remember me fr X grp project. I hear it is more difficult to meet interesting and special people the older we get so I don't want to miss an opportunity. Would you like to meet for coffee?

Something along those lines.

My top preference would be for u to cl her but if ur too shy, send the email. If no email avail - txt.

Best Wishes for success.

its hard because you're in college now and it takes a lot of effort to get in contact with her. may come across awkward. but I always say, you regret what you didn't do, not what you did. So contact her and ask her if she wants to chat. try and find something that you have in common. (you both love a sports team, a band...) and say you're dying to go to it. Ask her if she is going too. Maybe you could meet up after, or go together? I always feel that chemistry works way better in person rather than online. So try and find a friendly way to see her in person. Think of her like a friend. How would you meet up with a long lost friend?

if all fails, at least you know you tried.

First of all - by popular, was she still a nice girl? How does she treat others? Is she really worth it?

Second of all - what hobbies/ interests do you have in common? Go for those and conversation may soon follow, i.e. if she likes to ski, maybe you will run into her on the slope or make mutual friends in common.

There was a guy in high school who was really shy that I remember liked me, but we never had enough things in common - i.e. I went away to college, etc. and he didn't. Make sure you have common interests...

Maybe be friends with one of her closer friends and not in a rude way but pick one you know you wouldn't have a chance with just in case she might have feelings for you while you like her best friend. Tell her friend that your like that girl and just see what she thinks about you. Or you could follow her on twitter and wait a few days then ask for her number. Hope it helps good luck!

I think you should try just talking to her without getting her number figure out where she goes and try to run into her and start a conversation. texting is too impersonal and you don't really get to know anyone through it. Plus she might be a little creeped out if you just text her out of the blue getting her number from some one else.

You were classmates in the past, so I don't think it would be creepy if you follow her on tweeter but sending him messages could be really creepy, try to ask her for her eemail or number by yourself

She's not going to think its creepy if you follow her on twitter. I'd say you should give it a shot and if it works out then great! If not at least you know you tried and THEN you can move on.

no thats really creppy. All u can do is talk to her

........since u dont see her anymore i would move on. U could try to message her on facebook. But thats all u can do. If u message her number then it would be weird. Good luck.

Its creepy, ask her personally if she wants 2 talk