Ok heres the story. I met this guy about a 2 and a half weeks ago. At the time I was with someone and I told him from the beginning I was. We hung out every now and then but he constantly was texting me and calling me asking me to stay over at his place and hang out with him. On weekend we got really wasted together and had sex. Of course then I broke up with my boyfriend. We hung out for a while after that then all of a sudden he quite calling me or texting. I was going to go over to his place on Saturday but he got upset with me about a simple misunderstanding. So I ended up not going over there that night. We agreed to hang out the next day. I went over the next day and we had sex again. Now he says he likes me but he shouldn't have slept with me and that he doesn't want a gf cause he's afraid he'll cheat on me.What should I do? Is he just playing games with me and only wanted to hang out with me for one reason?
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Sorry Steph, but he is one of the jerks that makes the rest of us look bad. He was just wanting one thing and he got it 2x. I can understand how he would feel like you would cheat on him because you had a boyfriend when you had your first tryst with him. The 2nd one was a straight up use. I would leave this guy alone, even when he calls you back and asks to get together again, and he will.
Don't go out with him. If he is afraid he will cheat, then he knows best not to get with you. He probally was playing games and wanted you for the sex, but you have to learn that some me are idiots and do that kind of stuff to you. Get over this one and find someone new and honest and amazing.
Good luck. x
he could generally have feelings for u but if he is afraid that he is going to cheat on u i think u lot should just stay friends.just in case u get hurt
he's a playa. hit him with your purse the next time you see him.
he just wanted to bone you, or you suck in bed.
either way you got played.