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okay so my boyfriend's friend has another friend who likes him and my boyfriend told me that his friend told him that girl likes him and my boyfriend told him tell her that he has a girl..i told my boyfriend ima beat her up ( just playing though but i said it serious ) and he said if i even start anything that his gonna brake up with me does that mean he has a thing for her ? (bkuz iwill dump his asss and mess her up lol ) another time i said i was gnna talk shlt to his ex and he said if i did he was gnna break up with me like wtf whats his beef ?
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Why are you trying to beat her up? It sounds like you're being overly defensive of him, bordering on plain aggression. He just doesn't want conflict following him around, I wouldn't be surprised if he broke up with you anyway, given the fact that you intend to dump him and attack her if he likes her. You may be in a relationship, but people deserve their freedom. Stop trying to start fights and start being a more pacifistic person. The point of your relationship is to make both parties happy, but as this point you're both just feeling insecure. Perhaps break it off with him, if I know men's thought patterns (and I do since I am one) he'll do it soon enough even if you don't.
I don't know this person so cannot really tell you but in my opinion there is two posibilities.
1. He is thinking about this girl and maybe wanting to break up with you.
2. He might just not want to get into a conflict. If you were to make this girl get mad at you for something you did she might be mad at you and your boy friend.
My opinion is that you know him better than me. If the second one doesn't fit his personality it might be the first one. But it might be something completely different so don't jump the gun. Think about it. And if you really want to ask some of his friends what they think.
Men arent catty like women maybe he doesnt want drama around him which i totally get. Why are women so jealous though? Not I though.