Please Guide me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111?I have newly married. Problem is that In first intercourse, Ejaculatin happens prematuraly and it is taking to much time to tighten penis in next time. please help what i do............ How much time should be there between two intercourse. also tell me how many times generaly it should be in one night?. Created by Nanu. health-en - menx27s-health-en

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One easy way to get around this, is for your wife(congrats on the wedding :), to masturbate or suck until you ejaculate. Then while you are recovering, you can caress your wife or you can finger or suck your wife to orgasm.

After that, your penis should be able to get hard again, this time insert the penis into the vagina. You should last alot longer, as you have already ejaculated, so it will take longer for you to ejaculate.

Other harder ways, are learning to relax and control when you orgasm by either:

- read about "kegel exercises" for males

- focusing your mind on controlling your penis, involves visualisation techniques

- slowing down your thrusting, using different stroking styles eg. slow and deep ,or fast and deep

- changing sexual positions or where you aim the penis while thrusting

- using condoms, reduces sensation(note, numbing creams would also numb the inside of your wife, so you would have to use a condom with them)

Good luck

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Let me give u some female advice. Did u lose your virginity to her? At least thats what I'm gathering. It's just that the eeling is so good for u now that u havent learned to keep it under wraps when u want to. No big deal really, women see and hear about these things all the time. Ok so this is the advice I have to offer, use a condom. Take it slow, explain to your wife what is going on (this will help ease your fears and take some of the pressure off) and if all else fails use some delay cream. But try not to get frustrated it will only make the problem more difficult, and believe me she understands anxiety, I'm sure she has it too it's just easier for us to hide it.

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Try getting some thing from this site, the stuff really works. I've used a few of them in the bedroom and they really help out with the sexual experience for both parties. Also, if money is an issue, try ejaculating yourself before you and your wife get started.