While I have no issue during intercourse, I find it difficult to orgasm during oral sex. I seem to have lost sensitivity from when I was younger. I was wondering if there is anything I can do to increase my sensitivity. My boyfriend stays down there for a while but I still can't seem to orgasm. It's nothing that he is doing wrong. I know that it is my lack of sensitivity (I seem to have lost it sometime during my late marriage). I've been thinking about getting a clit piercing. Does that really work?