You need to find yourself someone to practice with. You should be open and honest and try different things. If you find you cant get there maybe you need to learn more about how to - read chicks mags, they are full of "self-help" tips. Cosmo online has tones of positions and recomendations.

Its always better to play with someone else than by yourself, but you need to know what makes you tick so that someone else can push your buttons.

I hope this helps - and I really hope I read the question properly; its almos coded! lol

Good luck!

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