Ok so i wax down there, but i always get ingrown hairs which leads to dark spots, even when the hairs grow out. but i was stupid and kept doing it anyways, and now i have tons of marks left over (my skin scars easily), but i'm starting to have a sexual relationship with this guy and so i was wondering, do you think it'd be better to shave it but all the marks are visible or should i leave it trimmed? i want him to go down on me, btw. thanks

and we're in our early 20's if that makes a difference on preference