ok so my best friend got mad at me for a lot of reasons (its a long story) and now she doesn't want to be my friend anymore. she like hates me and doesn't even want to talk to me. she want answer my phone calls, texts, emails, etc. so it's obvious that our friendship is over. but i told her tons of my secrets, some that no one, not even in my family know. we're going to the same school next year and what if she tells people? she's the type of person to do that... and i don't think i can stop her. i'm really scared because those are really personal secrets and some things i said are bad things about my other friends. if she tells them, then all of my friends will hate me. advice on what to do...?
p.s its not like i can tell her. she won't even look at me.
Update:i don't know much of her secrets but they arent as bad as mine plus i'm not the type of person that tells people
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u shoud write her a dteailed letter explaining how u feel and why ur sorry and all that bullshit and how shes ur bff and always has been. put a whole bunch of mushy stuff in it and send it in the mail this way she has to get it she will be so curious she'll have to read it. let her sit on it for a bit nd see wat happens
If she was truly ur bff she wouldnt do that unless you really messed up. Just give her some time and dont harass her. A week before school starts again try talking to her. If all else fails just keep ur head up and dont let anything phase you. You r probably still young and in a couple of yrs this wont matter anymore and hey who knows???
I would calm down first of all. There are a lot of "ifs" in this situation. I would give her the benefit of the doubt and let her do her own thing for the time being. If you really want to still be friends you should wait for her to say something to you.
Oh, and don't say things behind other people's backs if you're afraid they'll find out. It'll save tons of stress.
oh that's all messed up!! just ask urself if u really want her to go away?? most of the times after a fight we pretend tht we dont need the other person n we end up in a woerd situation. u sure do not want tht, its absolutely ok fir her to get mad. we show ur anger only at the ones we really care abt, just keep on n on n on calling her. evn i did d same wid my friend, i wudnt pick u his phn nor tok but he kept calling n tht really felt good, just keep texting or find a common friend to cal u n den cal her so u can tok on cinversation, have faith in her, if she really is ur friend she wud never spill d beans!!! best of luck
tell a mutual friend to tell her that ur sorry and ur a remorseful for the lot of reasons which is a long story and yeah just do whatever it takes to get her back to be ur friend before stuff get out of control in ur school
And especially, if you tell her not too.... if u get too - it'll just put the idea in her head.
Do you know any of her secrets...?
or. To save your as$ . Lie. Comfront her, publicly, and say "And i dont want you telling ANYONE ANY lies about ME! DONT listen to her! She may lie to you"
Or just ttell a lot of people, not to believe her, all i can think off, sorry
im sorry to say this but maybe it was for the best maybe you should go to her house and talk to her not to becaome bffs again but to well make a deal you dont tell i dont tell you dont have to say i dont have the guts to make it sound like your tuff could help you a bit if she tells well she is a stupid b**** ok so dont worry things happen for a reason
You can fight fire vs fire.
Just go to your other friends if she tells them and explain.
She can set as many fires as she wants, just make sure you extinguish them with poise and honesty.
i dont know i think u should just change schools or talk to ur teacher about it
if uyou are friends then the problem it will solve its self,why did you tell her stuff about your other friends. i mean if they are your friends then why say that bad stuff about them,