So I'm 14 yrs old and she is 15 yrs going on 16 In August , she has a boy friend that is 16 yrs , she claims she use to like me and now she see me as a brother , I told her I like her a lot and I also asked her do I have a chance with her she said " I Dont Know " I don't really know what my next step should be I just think that I should give up or something because they been going out for 8 Months , she has this thing on her iPhone called " secret folder " and Sometimess I wonder what she is hiding in there like naked pics or something before my mom and her mom are really close I thought I was really meant to be . Most of my friends says she come around but I'm started to thing that as long as her bf is there she don't even know I existed , she only text when she need something and that just really hurt because one Saturday she came to my house and she broke up with her boyfriend by the time I went to gk make a move she got back with him , her mom is mad stricked , because her older sister got pregnant at 14 so dont want the same for her , but if she hiding stuff she Probaly is going to loose her virginity soon. I need extreme help with this please !!!!! 10 Points !!!!!
Answers & Comments
Verified answer
Leave her alone. If she said "I don't know" and has a boyfriend, she doesn't want to be with you, she just didn't want to hurt your feelings.
Her secret folder is honestly none of your business, even if it has naked pictures in it, which I doubt. Just because she's hiding stuff doesn't mean she's going to lose her virginity.....Teenagers hide stuff from their parents, bad stuff AND good stuff.
It's just not your place, you're wedging yourself into somewhere you don't belong.
If she sees you as a brother, she will never love you.
However, if you are worried about her hiding stuff, just let it all out to her mom. It won't matter what this girl thinks of you if you do this, because you'll probably never get with her anyway.
Besides, if she is going to do IT, she's Not worth your time, OK?
Good luck :)
I'm 14 and I love getting attention from boys, but I never really care about the actual boy until he gets over me or starts dating someone (ESPECIALLY IF THEY MIGHT BE PRETTIER). Maybe if you took a really pretty girl on a date and posted a pic or two of you guys on facebook and then wait a week to text this girl you're into, she will notice you in a different way.
Look,, give it sometime my dawg,.. just play friend role,.. one night, you going see that secret folder come to life,. and yall still. I aint gonna even lie, im smashing chicks i didnt think i would because i keep it real, from begin to end, so dont worry about them now,.. they going worry about you later. Keep it real with her, and let her learn on her one.. HOLLA MA DawG
i can see you like this girl. your patent and nice to her. i think you might have a chance with her but while she is dating he bf try to see if you can find a girl that will like you back. but girls like it when a guy chase after them but then stop chaseiong her and see if she comes aroud. you can choose which one you want to go with but girls like a guy that works hard to get them
date in college