I can't get over my gf's previous sexual activities.?
We are both 32 and considering marrying soon. I love her to death but everytime we are together or having sex, I always imagine her with ex bf's. I can't stand the fact that two other guys have touched her kissed her and had sex with her. I cant stand the fact she allowed two other penises in her. Both of her previous relationships lasted two years and she says she was madly love with both. She says she loves me but I can't get rid of my thoughts. What should I do?
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You seem really insecure, I'm 27 and my partner is 37. I don't imagine him with his ex-girlfriends or lovers.
I'm certain he doesn't imagine me with my ex-lover.
Just think she is great in bed and be thankful to her ex lovers for teaching her on how to please you.
If she's 32 and it was only 2 guys, consider yourself lucky. Lots of women have had 2 guys on the same night.
Dude!! You should seriously feel lucky she only ever had sex with two guys before you!! Damn! You need to get over it or it will ruin your relationship eventually. Does she obsessively talk about these guys? If so, that's not good-tell her it really bothers you when she talks about it. Be honest-tell her you worry you don't measure up and you wonder if she loves you just as much. Be vulnerable with her. If she acts like your feelings don't matter you shouldn't get married. Period.
Are you yourself a virgin? Being 32 and only having 2 other partners is great, I think. You have to get over it or find someone who hasn't been with anyone else.
If I knew the man I was with felt this way I would break up with him. You have no right to judge her. If all she is to you is damaged goods she's better off without you. A man your age should have outgrown this attitude a long time ago. This is your problem, get over it or move on.
get over it. its not like youre a 32 year old virgin yourself...she could say the exact sane thing about u. its not like all girls wait around and let guys sleep around while there waiting. stop being a hypocryt