me and a guy dated for 8 months,then he broke up with me, then we got bck to gether for a few weeks,i broke up with him,got bck to gether broke up,and then went out one last time but he broke up with me over a text saying you a realy cool person blah blah blah i think we should be just friends and i said thats fine..did we afishaly brake up???? and im still madley in love with him and we are friends what should i do??????????? HELP ME
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The best thing you can do is just be his friend and move on. Sometimes guys just need space and time. If you start going out with other guys you might find somebody else you like even more, but even if you don't for awhile he might just realize after he hasn't dated you for awhile all the things that he misses about you and he will want you back. I would say if he said he just wants to be friends and you said that's fine then yes you are "broken up" but if you dated for 8 months you still know each other pretty well and if you really like this guy just give him space but still be his friend and talk to him once in awhile. He probably wants to try dating a girl or two he's met recently and see what its like, he might end up liking her but he might not end up liking her and he will realize all the good times he shared with you.
True loves dont say i want to spend the rest of my life with you then two days later say i hate you and break up Its not your fault, you gave him a chance and lets face it he messed up big time, too bad you cant cuss on these forums otherwise i would express my more anger toward this one that you havent described fully Love is actually Learning more about someone you like dearly, the more you learn about them the more you love them"Men are mostly pigs and the good ones are always 25 years or older who actually understand and can open up about how they feel""the best man to go out with is, one that still hasnt kissed""for every good there is a bad, and for every great there is a worse, for every high there is a low, and for every lie, the worse will show, only one can decide if they are right or not, but can you decide, whats good for you for that flight, dont take it as a last chance, take it as a new expieriance.""until you are married, dont take things too seriosly because youll just hurt more."make friends and pick the best one, best thing you can do, dont go out on a date because most guys will "front" or just act polite to cheer you up, and make you think he is good, if he is truelly a good guy, and worth your time, then time is exactly what he will give, if he gets impatient then pffft, screw him....
you need to move on, because you both are in a vicious cycle for a romantic relationship, and it'll never end. You'll find someone better to be with that will be a better man toward you, because a text message break up is never okay.
not to be rude but i think its time you let him go, if he doesn't want the relationship then you can't force him into it so, yea. sorry, good luck.
You should move on...he's just not into you that way.
And you should really use spell checker!!!